I gave my first bj when I was in 8th grade, managed to keep my virginity until I was 17 as far as intercourse but oral sex was performed on me was at 15. My dad always thought of me as this virginal daughter but my mom and I talked about everything. She was pretty upset when I told her about the bj, her first question was did he force it on you? No I told her I wanted to do it, he was scared as hell when I started sucking on him worried that we were going to get caught.

My husband told me when we were going to have sex for the first time that I was his first, I almost burst out laughing when he looked at me and asked how about you?

I answered truthfully that he was not my first and ended with I wanted him to be my last. I left out the "dozen" of guys that I had been with in my past. I have not had intercourse with anyone since we have been married but I have sucked off a few guys. I find that if you do that to men you have much better control over them, they think that they are getting the upper hand but in reality I am in more control.

I love sex and always have!