Several years ago I and a friend had a fling and my husband found out about it and we seperted for a short time but once he came by my place and Roger was there also.

He wanted to talk so I went outside and I was still in love with him but I really did not see anything wrong with having sex with another guy while I was married so we came up on an agreement where I could have sex with men but at first Larry was content to listen from outside the door as we had sex but afterwards he wanted to watch so I caved in and agreed to let him watch and I found it very erotic having sex with another man while I talked to my husband and for a year we went at it like children with me and him finding guys for me but then we cooled down and laid out some ground rules. Now maybe 4 or 5 times a year we do this but we do background checks on my prospective lovers to make sure they are polite and respectful when we get together and I still have very powerful orgasms when I do it with another guy talking to my spouse. It works for us but be careful it can backfire on you if you are not careful.